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After getting through the first 12 weeks of honours year, I was off to Las Vegas with Greg – WOOHOO. It was a 10 hour flight so I took some of my honours project work with me, ambitious I know! I still had my Interim Report to hand in and 2 exams to study for, needless to say I never actually looked at any of it. It was holiday time.
Amazing view
The weather was pretty cold, but who cared I was in Vegas! It felt so good to have a break from university work, no stress or worry just FUN! Spending quality time with Greg was amazing, at home university work takes over and we hardly have anytime to ourselves. This was the perfect place to have some fun together. Since it was the week before Christmas, Vegas had decorations everywhere it was honestly beautiful!

Pretty Christmas Tree
We spent our time in Vegas sightseeing along with eating, shopping and drinking. I didn’t want to come home, back to reality and back to studying!! Greg wanted to see a show, I wasn’t really fussed but I suppose relationships are about give and take. So we booked tickets for KA Cirque du Soleil, it was unbelievable!

My holiday came to an end far quicker than I would have liked, it was time to head home and back to studying. The joys of being a student!
Fabulous Nevada
Until next time Vegas, 

xx,

Karen
In September 2015 I officially became an honours student, I had obtained my degree with Distinction and this was my final journey. This time around I only had 2 modules each trimester, along with my honours project which is worth double marks!

Should be helpful!!
I was absolutely horrified when I found out I still had to sit an exam for each module and complete coursework, surely my honours project was enough! I wasn’t looking forward to this at all, even more bad news another database module (which I hate).

 The first few weeks were not as bad as I expected; I was only really worried about my dissertation. Then I found out, before my dissertation I had to hand in an Interim Report!! I had never heard of this before, great another thing to spend time on and panic about.

My other 2 modules had coursework which was group work (AGAIN), luckily I was able to choose my own team members. Having done group projects before, I knew It was hard to find time to work together but this was difficult on another level!! I had so much work to do for my interim report, including writing my literature review. I was told by my supervisor to spend a minimum of 14 hours per week on my honours project – SERIOUSLY!!

Ok, so 14 hours per week might not seem a lot but really it is! Working 2 days, meeting up to discuss group work, spending hours on my project and attending lectures = NIGHTMARE!! This was just too much pressure, there wasn’t enough hours in the day anymore!!

The first trimester didn’t get any easier, I was so upset and stressed that me and Greg booked a holiday to Las Vegas for the week before Christmas. This might sound crazy, especially since my exams were in January. I needed something to look forward to,
I needed a BREAK!!

This was only the start of my dreaded final year at university…..
xx,
Karen

In the summer months before starting honours year I had a huge decision to make, what did I want my dissertation to be based upon? We were informed that we would be working on our dissertations from September to April, so I had to choose a topic that would keep me interested. The problem with that was, I wasn’t really sure what I was actually interested in!!
OK, let’s start to focus on the dreaded honours year! After a stressful 3 years of attending university 3 days and working 3 days, I had to make a choice. What was more important to me, time or money? Realistically if I reduced my working contract by a day it would give me a further day to study, but could I afford to lose a day’s wage each week?

After discussing it with Greg he encouraged me to focus on my studies and work 2 days a week, reassuring me we could manage our money. To be totally honest, I had thought of reducing my contracted days when I started 3rd year, but was too worried about my financial situation. I would be losing a significant amount of money each month, a worry that I really didn’t need to add to my existing stress!

A month before starting my honours year my contract was reduced, I had made the right decision even if it meant I had budget. I started to shop in Aldi, rather than my usual favourites Marks and Spencers and Sainsburys. Now shopping in Marks and Spencers is a treat for me, rather than a weekly occurrence. Again this is something I faced as a result of being a mature student, I didn’t have my parents to support me and pay my bills!
Budget shopping!
When I finished 3rd year the university lecturers informed all students honours year was no walk in the park, it would be the hardest year of all. In a way, this is what prompted me to decide what was more important to me time or money. Of course I had to choose time, money can buy you nice things and pay bills but it can't buy time!

 Relief and panic at the same time, more time to study for honours year but a lower income to live on!! Nevertheless I was ready for honours year, after all I had time on my side.
xx,
Karen

In 2015, my sister Joanna and her partner Robert were due to be married and I was a bridesmaid (happy face). I was delighted and was looking forward to the wedding, however it was in May and so were my exams – PANIC!!

As you can imagine, in the months before the wedding my sister wanted me to attend dress fittings, look at flowers and contribute my opinion on these. This is what any sister or bridesmaid should do for the bride but I was juggling work, university and studying when I was at home. I felt under an enormous amount of pressure from university as these last 3 exams would give me my degree (if I passed them)! I wanted to be there for my sister and contribute towards the wedding plans, but at the same time I had to study for my exams and complete coursework. It was a nightmare!!!

My sister tried to be understanding as she knew university was important to me, but this didn't stop me feeling as if I was letting her down. I should have been focussing all my attention on the wedding preparations and hen weekend. I did go on the hen weekend; my exams were the following week – crazy I know!
Sisters; Love. 
After my last exam there was still a few days to the wedding, I told Joanna whatever you need I'm here! I wasn't as involved as I should have been but this was due to my commitments at university! On the wedding day Joanna was a beautiful bride!! I spent the day and night running around after her and rightly so, I hadn't been the bridesmaid she deserved (sad face).
Beautiful Bride

I wish now that I had somehow managed my time better, I knew the wedding and exams were in the same month. I had plenty of notice, if only I was more prepared!

My advice; PREPARE + PLAN IN ADVANCE!!

xx,
Karen
I have briefly mentioned my Gran (Rena), who I lived with since I was 18 years old. She suffered from dementia, so sometimes could be a little hard to deal with. She was also unbelievably cute, even though she was in her late 80's she would come into my room and ask if I wanted some tea (then expect me to make it ha!). Anyway this woman was my entire world, everyone who knew me knew about my Gran because I always spoke about her (good & bad).

Cute as a button!

My Gran was with me through my first 2 years at university, sadly she passed away a few weeks into my 3rd year. She was 91 years old and the light of my life! My partner Greg had moved in with me and Gran a few months before her passing, together they were a comedy act. She was the type of woman who could make you mad to crying with laughter in seconds, now she was gone I didn't know how to cope without her. I was lost :-(.

I stayed off university for 1 week, I couldn't stand being in the house without her so I threw myself into my studies. Sometimes I couldn't concentrate, this was to be expected I guess but I was determined not to give up - this was the year I would achieve my degree! People say time is a healer, I honestly have never heard such truer words!

That year I got all A's for my exams, I couldn't believe it! I had went through the hardest time in my life and still managed to achieve my degree! Me and Greg still live in Gran's house, of course we now pay our own bills as I don't have Gran to look after me anymore.

One Love

When life knocks you down the only thing you can do is pick yourself back up again! In the same year I lost the most important person in my life and achieved my degree.

My advice to everyone, don't give up <3

xx,
Karen


On the 3rd October 2014 I passed my driving test finally - Hurray!! I had failed it earlier in the year, due to hitting the kerb when parallel parking (not my fault really ha!). I had been taking driving lessons for ages and to be quite honest I hated driving! My dad told me it’s something everyone should learn in life if they have the chance, so there I was spending a fortune on lessons that I didn’t enjoy.

It was hard to fit in university, work and driving lessons but I wasn’t in any rush to sit my test again so I wasn’t too fussed. My older sister kept asking me when I was going to book my test again as I had been taking lessons for probably nearing a year and a half. Like I said I didn’t really enjoy it and I’m naturally a very nervous person!

Too much pressure if you ask me, anyway I booked it and passed second time around – relief!! Next up was to get a car, I couldn’t wait to drive Gran about as it was hard for her to walk a lot (unfortunately this didn't happen). My sister Joanna helped me pick a car, along with the help of my best friend Lindsey and my partner Greg.
Polly the car!
Finally, I was in 3rd year of university and had my own car (shame I was too nervous to drive on the motorway). Even now I don’t drive to university I still get the train, its less hassle for me. I do drive my car to work, which means I get there and back quicker and have more time to study. Passing my test has actually turned out to be beneficial as it does save me time travelling. (Turns out sometimes parents are right!!).

I’m glad I don’t have to worry about another test! Worrying about that and university work was a nightmare. My advice, don’t study and take lessons at the same time unless you actually like driving.

xx,

Karen
So, in my first year at university there wasn't any exams - awesome! Well that all changed in my 2nd year. For anyone who is unsure how university learning works, the year is split into 2 trimesters learning 3 modules in each trimester. For each module you get a piece of coursework, sometimes they even give you 2 pieces of coursework - not so great!

Having coursework to complete is stressful enough but oh no that's not all you have to worry about, for most modules there is an exam after the 12 week teaching period!

Before university I hadn't sat an exam since I was 17 and I failed it the first time around, needless to say I was not looking forward to exams! If you fail an exam you do get to resit it again within a few months, this isn't ideal because you will be studying for another set of exams at the same time. STRESSFUL!! 

Reasonable Thoughts!!
When my first set of exams came around I took the week off work to prepare, this meant using a week's holiday to study - needs must I guess! It was INFORMATION OVERLOAD, seriously trying to remember 12 week's worth of information for 3 different modules is a nightmare. The good thing is the university does provide previous past paper exams, so you can try them and work out any patterns (when you find one it's like the sun has come out from hiding).


In most of my modules the lecturers did give some key hints for the upcoming exams, to be honest the hints could have been better. As I am now in my final year I only have one exam left to sit in May, best news ever!! In all my time at university I have never failed an exam even though there have been times when I thought no way did I pass that!

IMPORTANT TIP: Stock up on highlighters, pads and pens! I have went through a crazy amount writing all my exam notes (I do like them to look pretty ha!).

I would advise if you work part time to book the week before exams of, as you don't have classes the week of exams this gives you more time to study! I would say try and stay calm but that's never going to happen, everyone gets nervous. If you put the time and effort in and study, then you will make it through :-)

xx,
Karen
So, now you are a little more up to date with some of my experiences, however a huge part of university work is focused on Group Work. Sure, I know this is important but I thought university would be more about what ME as an individual could academically achieve. I guess that's what the dreaded exams are for (I will talk more about them in another post).

For the majority of the group coursework issued I was able to pick my group members, others were decided upon by the module lecturers. Having to work in a group with people you don't know is super scary! You have to work alongside these people for 8-10 weeks, arrange meetings, discuss the coursework out with university along with completing other modules. You rely on these people to contribute ideas and complete their fair share of the workload, this does not always happen! I have worked in a group where I was left to complete the majority of the work, I should have said something at the time!. I guess in a way I didn't trust the other people to complete the work, if I wanted an A then I had to work extra hard!!
Too much if you ask me :-(
Luckily for me in 1st year I became friends with 2 fantastic girls, who I have done nearly all my group coursework with. We worked so well together communicating all the time, we got an A for all our group projects - WOOHOO! While working on assignments if, I don't agree with something or don't understand I will always ask questions! My group (friends) call me the inquisitive one ha, this doesn't bother me because if you don't ask questions then you won't learn!

Outside life can get in the way of group work, unwell kids or relatives, work, special occasions. These can all be overcome if every team member is willing to put the effort in, we all have these unavoidable situations in life. It's how you overcome them and communicate that counts, believe me there is no room or time for lazy group members! Some people go to university to pass the time or just scrape a pass, this is not me I want to achieve the best I can.

Sounds fun doesn't it :-)

xx,
Karen

If only I could attend university and not have to work, that would be wonderful! Sadly this is not the case, as I've previously mentioned I work part time as a Deputy Manager for William Hill. I have worked there for nearly 8 years - rather scary!

In the Student Funding post, I have commented about there being no payments from university during the summer months. It is for this reason that I could not quit my job, I still had to survive and pay my bills in the summer. Working part time and studying full time is not easy, it is a constant struggle to juggle both and manage my time effectively.

At William Hill I am lucky in some ways, as they are open evenings and weekends this is mainly when I work. So basically I'm at university during the day and working nights and weekends, where did my life go I wonder!!

This is so true!!

Like me, some students have no choice but to work part time and attend university. It is hard work but look at me, I'm nearly finished 4 years of it! If I had attended university after college there would have been no need for me to work part time, as I would have still been living with my parents. In some ways I think it would have been easier to have gone down this route, then other times I think NO WAY! I was a 17 year old teenage girl with not a care in the world, sure I would have had more time to study but realistically I would have spent it partying!

During the summer months I have worked full time, to compensate for not receiving any payments from university. This is the good thing about my job, they allow me to change my contract as and when I need to. Not many employers would be so accommodating!

Working and being in full time education is hard work, I like to think the hard work and dedication will pay off in the end :-).

xx,
Karen
When I began my application for funding at university I was extremely nervous, what if I couldn't afford to work part time and attend university? To my complete surprise I found out that there was a mass of financial support made available to students. My tuition fees were already covered by SAAS (student award agency for scotland), which meant all there was for me to do was apply for a bursary & loan if required - It most definitely was!

I was living with my Gran upon starting university and in all honesty I didn't have that many bills to pay. I was used to earning a full time wage and didn't want to suddenly have less money every month, which is why I applied for a student loan along with my bursary. Looking back at my first 2 years at university I realise now that I didn't actually need to apply for the loan, I knew I would have to pay i back one day but at the time it felt like free money, so I wanted it.

Although I don't have children I have never used this service, most universities provide financial support towards the cost of child care. This is fantastic, it means all those parents in the world wishing to return to education can do so, and are provided with support if they need it. 

MONEY MONEY MONEY £££

Student funding is honestly awesome! Between my part time wage and my income from university I was making more than my previous full time wage. Another great thing about being a student is NO COUNCIL TAX BILL - WOHOO! If you are a full time student then you are exempt from paying council tax, however if others in your home are not students then a deduction is applied. For me & my Gran we didn't pay any council tax, I was a student and Gran was over 80 with dementia so she was also exempt, more money to enjoy!


Little bit of advice - try and save some money because during the summer there is no payments from university - BOO!

xx,

Karen
Hello there! My name is Karen, I’m 26 and in my Honours year at university studying Business Technology. 

Selfie .....

As part of my coursework for my Digital Marketing module I have to create a blog, the topic of the blog was for me to decide upon. Since I am a mature student I thought I would share my experience of life at university with others. For me returning to education as a mature student was very daunting, therefore I hope to share my positive experiences and advice with others. Although, not every experience has been a positive one! There has been tears and tantrums along the way.

I began university 2 months before my 22nd birthday, which when you think about it isn’t that old at all. Nevertheless, I was deemed a mature student in the eyes of the education system! When I started I was delighted to see there was a variety of age groups enrolled on my course, this made me feel more relaxed. I wasn’t the only one who had decided to return to education a little later than most people expected.

I think both my parents and siblings were pretty surprised that I returned to education, I’m not exactly the brain box of the family! This was a fresh start for me, a chance to make something of myself and choose my own path in life. I had life experience but not the academic qualifications to change career path, I do enjoy my current job but don’t see it being my ‘Forever Career’.

The first couple of posts in my blog will reflect on events from my first 3 years at university, along with some helpful information and advice (I hope). Returning to university as a mature student is the best decision I ever made, I was ready to work hard and put the effort in.

I don’t regret it for a single minute, (unless I’m having a bad day).

xx,

Karen







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      • Introduction
      • Student Funding
      • Working Part Time
      • Group Work
      • Exam Stress
      • Driving Test
      • Emotional
      • Wedding and Exam Stress
      • Time or Money?
      • Dissertation Topic
      • Officially an Honours Student
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